Man Up

Last night I took Hot Dad to a fundraiser/info session that my friend was hosting for the volunteer organization that she works for.  First of all- let's just consider that.  I never bring a date!  Even when I have had boyfriends, they always seem to be the sort that either can't make it or can't handle it.  But HD was different.  He had no problem with attending, and was a superstar while there.  He was friendly, interested, chatting people up, asking questions... What?  I'm not familiar.  Here's the thing: he is A Man.  He is a full-fledged, fully-cooked grown up, not a Guy (or worse, A Boy) who is too cool for school.  I looked across at him and thought- "huh- somehow, I am here with A Man."  I've always had a thing for younger guys, but after seeing HD in action, I may be rethinking that policy.  If this real adult dating, sign me up.

After the event we went to get a bite and a drink, and then back to his for foosball (he has a table- see, not too grown up) and some olympics.  We were having such a great time- it's been a while, but this is that thrilling early dating moment when you don't care what you do, you just want to hang out with this person.  (Sitting as closely as possible, of course.)  And it feels so easy!  Such a contrast compared to all the strategy involved with my usual dating- keeping the cards close to the vest, trying not to appear too eager.  Suddenly, when you are really into someone, and it feels mutual, that all just seems to fade away.  I realize that I am probably speaking to soon- this was only Date 3!  I have had big letdowns after Date 7's or Date 10's in the past, so I know that's out there.  But give me a break, I am still on the high of a particularly great evening...  I am nothing if not a hopeless romantic.

And speaking of romance, we had a very fun night together that lasted until the wee hours.  I decided to ignore the legos (no cart before horse!) and concentrate on gorgeous HD.  Can' t wait till next time...