Friday, August 29, 2008

Another Kind of Reunion...

SO happy to have an HD update!  After waiting patiently during his Big Event Prep, we finally were able to get together for lunch Thursday.  Yes, Thursday- the day of said event.  Poor HD was running around like a (local, organic, farm-raised) chicken with his head cut off, but said he really wanted to see me- that it would be a welcome break.  Hooray!  To borrow from one of my dearest, "I have a PhD in" Busy Guy.  Whether it was band practice, all-night sound editing, or, uh, working on his PhD, I am all too familiar with fighting for attention with the demands of my beau's work.  I always wanted to be port in the storm, but unfortunately the storm usually came first.  My lessons of "call me just to say you can't call me" just fell on deaf ears.  But here I was, being squeezed in for a lunch and snuggle, when HD's to-do list was still uncomfortably long.  This was a different breed of Busy Guy!  Perhaps the distinction is that this BG also appears to be Into Me Guy.  So into me, I might add, that he snuck over at 1 am that night, once he had finally wrapped things up.  (And remember, the Golden Gate is between us!)  We also met for lunch AND dinner on Friday!  (Btw, the meals with this one have been insane!)  If I am counting correctly, that makes Dates 5-8 within the span of 2 days!  Things feel romantic, and also increasingly comfortable.  I'm feeling less and less like I am interested in dating other guys.  And I am still doing a good job of keeping my big-picture worries at bay, and just enjoying the moment.  Have I actually pulled off my goal of meeting a great man in SF?  So far, so good...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

'Into you' guy makes me 'Excited for you' girl... yay!! So glad to have this update.

Katrina Elder said...

Eyes on the path, we gently walk to and fro. Our hearts modest, our needs modest, we accept what life offers so that we may learn it's little lessons. Follow the Sage with humility and acceptance, and you will never be alone. Listen carefully.